Sherene has come back from China after two weeks. It indeed has felt like a lifetime, and i am kinda shocked seeing how much i've missed her when she was not around. The dinners without her, the singing session was ruled out, even the shopping spree has been cut down. awww, in this case, she seems more like a vice! haha.
It got me thinking that we always take things around us for granted, and worse still, we take the people around us for granted. You won't notice how much influences the person has had on you, you won't realise how attentive he/she has been to you, and how nice a person he/she is. But when the people has left, yeah will never be by your side again, everything will come to the realisations abruptly, flooding your mind and exerting so much pressure and regrets than you can ever bear.
that's life, you will never know when you have not lost anything yet.
I was having a conversation with my friend Jules, apparantly he has just had a breakup three weeks ago. He came to admit to me that he was so into the relationship, he was so deeply in love and could hardly go on with the life after the breakup. Everything around has reminded him of her, and he couldn't put things right for almost three weeks. But now, after only three weeks, he's got another date, and sort of going out on dates and falling in love is apparantly inevitable.
It's just not fathomable how thing goes in life. You are able to cope with life damn well and move on within an incomprehensive period of time while you are supposed to be maudlin and cry over the past relationship. It's just amazing how fast the pace of life is going and you'd never have the time to stop by and digest what's been happening.
Before this, i never realised how blissful it was when my mum bought me a shirt or pants ( it was freaking 9 years ago), how fabulous when you have somebody to wake you up in the morning without needing to turn off the alarm ( and it was 7 freaking years ago), and so on. But today, they all came to hit me at once, leaving me heartily picking them up piece by piece, and caused the emotion-driven part of me to surface.
Leave the pasts behind voonsien, a better life is ahead of you.
A brand new start is awaiting and i will be cutting the queue to reach out to it.
It got me thinking that we always take things around us for granted, and worse still, we take the people around us for granted. You won't notice how much influences the person has had on you, you won't realise how attentive he/she has been to you, and how nice a person he/she is. But when the people has left, yeah will never be by your side again, everything will come to the realisations abruptly, flooding your mind and exerting so much pressure and regrets than you can ever bear.
that's life, you will never know when you have not lost anything yet.
I was having a conversation with my friend Jules, apparantly he has just had a breakup three weeks ago. He came to admit to me that he was so into the relationship, he was so deeply in love and could hardly go on with the life after the breakup. Everything around has reminded him of her, and he couldn't put things right for almost three weeks. But now, after only three weeks, he's got another date, and sort of going out on dates and falling in love is apparantly inevitable.
It's just not fathomable how thing goes in life. You are able to cope with life damn well and move on within an incomprehensive period of time while you are supposed to be maudlin and cry over the past relationship. It's just amazing how fast the pace of life is going and you'd never have the time to stop by and digest what's been happening.
Before this, i never realised how blissful it was when my mum bought me a shirt or pants ( it was freaking 9 years ago), how fabulous when you have somebody to wake you up in the morning without needing to turn off the alarm ( and it was 7 freaking years ago), and so on. But today, they all came to hit me at once, leaving me heartily picking them up piece by piece, and caused the emotion-driven part of me to surface.
Leave the pasts behind voonsien, a better life is ahead of you.
A brand new start is awaiting and i will be cutting the queue to reach out to it.
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