越帮越忙

"我很烦。someone called me and i got distracted. I thought of not picking up but i couldn't bring myself to do that! tell me what should i do???!!!!"

"the next time he calls just tell him you are preparing for exams. tell him you will contact him when the exam is over." i said, sounded so convinving i was amazed by myself.

"you are in the same situation too. 你做得到吗？" she asked.

"做不到！" i answered right away and all the courage she has mustered disappeared at that moment.

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sometimes we should not give advice when we are not capable of putting it into practice ourselves. 越帮越忙 indeed.